Katherine Heigl was spotted today with T.R. Knight today after she had a big fight with new husband Josh Kelley. A source said the couple started fighting only days after their wedding, and Katherine has been looking more and more upset. The source adds that the couple is already telling friends they may divorce if the fight doesn’t stop soon. In the video above you can see Katherine was obviously crying, and the paparazzi were so concerned they kept asking T.R. if she had been crying, and if she was okay. We told when this couple got married that Katherine was a drama queen, and now she’s proving it. Looks like the honeymoon really is over.

Remember when got in the middle of that whole faggot issue on Grey’s anatomy? Well it seems Katherine Heigl liked the attention when she focused on the negative, so now she is knocking her summer hit Knocked Up for being "a little sexist. “It paints the women as shrews, as humorless and uptight, and it paints the men as goofy, fun-loving guys,” the actress, who just turned 29, tells January’s Vanity Fair. “It was hard for me to love the movie,” she says, even though the comedy elevated her asking price from $300,000 to $6 million for her next flick. Heigl sounds ungrateful. It was just a story in a movie. If she didn’t like how it portrayed the character then why did she do the movie?

Heigl also says she’s grown wary of her Grey’s Anatomy character, Izzie, who had a fling with her married pal, George (T.R. Knight). “It was a ratings ploy,” she says. “I’m trying to figure her out and keep her real.” Again, so what, it’s just a story. Audiences are asked to believe you are something you are not, that’s called acting in case Heigl forgot.

Heigl, who is engaged to musician Josh Kelley, tells Vanity Fair in its January issue that she has no "grand illusions about marriage," and yet she has approached it quite traditionally.

"I think it’s a crapshoot. The odds are really bad, especially in this town," Heigl says. "But I have a lot of faith in Josh, and I wanted to have that one day when I stand in front of my friends and my family and honor him and how important he is in my life."

Despite her modern-day skepticism, Heigl upheld one old-fashioned ideal: She didn’t want to move in with Kelley, 27, before tying the knot. "I still have enough Mormon in me – not a lot, but enough, that I wanted to keep that a little bit sacred," she says.

In another way, though, Heigl upended tradition while they were dating – aggressively pursuing Kelley, demanding to know his plans for the relationship, even picking out the diamond for her ring.

"I’m one of those women who always thinks it’s better to play it cool and keep them wanting more," she says, "but I really threw myself at him. I broke all the rules."

But only after changing the way she approached relationships.

"I decided I was sick of trying to figure out what everybody else wanted, and I should just decide what I want," she says. "Josh is the first serious relationship I’ve ever had where I was like, This is me. From the moment I met him, I said, This is what I want and what I need."

There’s a very good chance Heigl will file divorce within just a few years saying her guy had mislead her. Heigl didn’t move in with her guy because she knew he’d become disillusioned once he got a taste of her negativity. This is why I don’t write about her much, but I did like her in Knocked Up, which she tried to ruin for you and me.

Newsweek has an interview with Isaiah Washington this week, and in it Isaiah of course addresses the "Greys Anatomy" controversy that led to his firing. While he says he regrets getting into an argument with Patrick Dempsey and then referring to cast mate T.R. Knight as a "faggot", he says the real reason he was fired is because he’s not some mush-mouthed negro. Instead he’s a 6-foot-1 black man with dark skin and who doesn’t go around saying "Yessah, massa sir" and "No sir, massa" to everyone. Newsweek says:

"Patrick and I had a philosophical disagreement that got out of hand and that I regret a great deal," Washington says.

"I said a lot of negative things that were never reported, but there was one word that caught everyone’s attention, particularly someone who wasn’t even in the room with us. It was a fight between two men that shouldn’t have happened. But someone heard the booming voice of a black man and got really scared and that was the beginning of the end for me. I see that now, but I didn’t then."

"I apologized and showed my remorse for what I said and for the pain I caused anyone,’’ says Washington. "If a black man can’t get forgiveness in this country, when so many other people like Robert Downey Jr. and the governor of California get second and third chances … I think that says a lot about race and this country where we stand."

"Well, it didn’t help me on the set that I was a black man who wasn’t a mush-mouth Negro walking around with his head in his hands all the time. I didn’t speak like I’d just left the plantation and that can be a problem for people sometime," he says. "I had a person in human resources tell me after this thing played out that ’some people’ were afraid of me around the studio. I asked her why, because I’m a 6-foot-1, black man with dark skin and who doesn’t go around saying ‘Yessah, massa sir’ and ‘No sir, massa’ to everyone? It’s nuts when your presence alone can just scare people, and that made me a prime candidate to take the heat in a dysfunctional family.’’

"My mistake was believing that I would get the support from my network and all of my cast mates across the board. My mistake was believing I could correct a wrong with honesty and sincerity. My mistake was thinking black people get second chances," he says. "I was wrong on all fronts."

Hey we white guys have it hard too. Just the other day I was beating my Mexican maid and she fell down and broke my DVD player. Of course I did what any gentleman would do, I called the cops and had her butt arrested for destroying my property. Long story short, she got off. A white man just can’t get justice in this society.

Hollywood is racist. Just because I m a 6’ 1" attraktive white male, everyone just asumes I m artickelet and can spel.

Isaiah got fired because he’s a jerk, and a butt hole. If he wants to play the blame game how about including the Jews and the Gay mafia while he’s at it? The creator of Grey’s Anatomy is a black woman, so Isaiah is peeing in the wind with his racism claim.

Isaiah Washington was fired from "Greys Anatomy" earlier this month after a much publicized incident where he told Patrick Demsey, "I’m not you’re faggot." T.R. Knight then made the whole incident about him, and T.R. admitted on Ellen’s show he didn’t even hear Isaiah say the word, but everyone else did. Now Isaiah says Knight should have been fired, not him. Us says:

"They fired the wrong guy," says Isaiah Washington.

In a telephone interview with the Houston Chronicle, Washington claims that it was Knight who propagated the idea that the slur was targeted at him and created a negative work environment.

Washington also alleged to the Chronicle that Knight, 34, likely wanted a salary increase and a more substantive role for his character.

Knight, who acknowledged that he was gay after the incident, later said on The Ellen DeGeneres Show that Washington used the epithet against him. "That’s a lie," says Washington, a Houston native. "I used the word during a disagreement with Patrick. I apologized for that. We shook hands and went back to work."

Isaiah probably didn’t hate gays before, but after T.R. Knight used the incident to get himself publicity, then GLAAD talked Isaiah into apologizing and doing a public service commercial, you can bet Isaiah hates gays now. No one likes getting it in the butt without Vaseline, especially when they don’t even get dinner and a movie.

Isaiah Washington has started talking about losing his Grey’s Anatomy job.

"I’m saddened by the outcome. I did everything that the producers and the network asked me to do. I came back under great duress and stress, and thought I was doing the job I was hired to do."

Washington got the axe after a pretty tumultuous season on the set. Isaiah reportedly has several run-ins with fellow cast mates and spouted a well-publicized homophobic remark at T.R. Knight.

It’s unlikely that Washington will get blackballed from the entertainment industry, but he’s probably blown his shot at a special appearance on Queer Eye.