Kate Gosselin, who could easily be the ice queen of reality TV, did an interview on the Today Show with Meredith Vieira. In the interview Kate did some great acting, even crying fake tears when she talked about her divorce from Jon Gosselin, and how she still wears the wedding ring … wait for it … so it doesn’t upset the kids. Remember, Kate was the brains behind the success of Jon and Kate Plus 8. Kate really knows how to work it.

Kate also denied cheating on Jon with her bodyguard Steve Neild. Why does she need a bodyguard anyway?

When asked if Jon was telling the truth when he said that Kate was the one who ended the marriage, Kate would not answer the question, so we’ll take that as a yes. Kate isn’t the victim if she kicked Jon to the curb, but she’ll do her best to act like one.

Jon responded to Kate’s Today Show interview with the following statement:

"Kate’s the mother of my children. I only wish her the best."

Jon is publicly taking the high road.

Jon did cancel an interview with E! News after he got wind they were going to ask too many probing questions. E! then interviewed Jon’s ex girlfriend, Kate Major (pictured below), who supposedly quit her job at Star Magazine to date Jon. Kate said in her interview that Jon was a "liar" and a "two-timer," who had promised they would move in together.

Jon responded to Major’s interview by saying:

"I’m happy she’s out of my life."

Amen to that.

It seems Jon is attracted to a certain type of woman.

Now that Jon Gosselin has moved on, Kate Gosselin has rehired Steve Neild, who is the bodyguard Kate was accused of cheating on Jon with.

Unless Neild and his wife are already preparing for their own divorce, it’s hard to imagine he would cheat with tummy tuck Kate publicly.

Kate Gosselin took the kids to party city with bodyguard Steve Neild close by. The kids always look unhappy when daddy Jon Gosselin isn’t around.

Kate looks a lot happier when she’s in front of a camera, or signing someone’s copy of her book.

We’ve seen the pictures that show both Jon Gosselin and Kate Gosselin engaging in what appears to be cheating, although we wanted to believe they just had an open marriage. The evidence that the Gosselin marriage is over, and headed for divorce is everywhere. The couple with 8 children are on all the gossip covers, and they are confirming they are having problems, as are their family and friends.

Kate’s brother Kevin Kreider, and his wife Jodi, gave RadarOnline and interview in which Kevin says:

"Six months ago Kate came to Jon and said, ’Hey, it’s over.’"

"Their family is in shambles."

"Kate wants to be a talk show host, and she really is starting to believe her own press."

Kevin and Jodi gave an interview to Star magazine that reveals even more, mostly about greedy Kate. Star reports:

Despite earning upwards of $75,000 per episode for their reality series Jon & Kate Plus 8, Jon Gosselin has had to empty his 401k because his wife, Kate, has been keeping the money for herself!

That is just one of the many blockbusting details that Kate ’ s brother and sister-in-law Kevin and "Aunt " Jodi Kreider reveal in their world exclusive interview with Star.

In the May 25 issue, on sale now, Kevin and Jodi reveal how the TV mom of twins and sextuplets spends months away from home promoting her two books (one more, a cookbook, is due in October) and loading up on speaking engagements, for which she commands $3,000 an hour. She also charges fans $150 per person for special meet-and-greet tea parties and even makes fans pay $20 for autographs!

Note to Kate: The biggest stars in the world – including Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie – don’t charge for autographs.

It’s Kate’s lust for the big bucks that led to Kevin and fan favorite Jodi’s sudden disappearance from the series after season three, they say. When Kate found out that TLC had offered Jodi and Kevin compensation for their appearances on the show, she freaked out and said no one else should be paid for appearing on the show but them, her brother tells Star

"Her reasoning for pushing me and Jodi away was because the more people you split it up between, the less there is!" Adds Jodi, "It has turned into a huge moneymaking machine…and the money has become priority No. 1 with Kate."

So much so, says Kevin, that she has an iron grip on the family finances – with precious little trickling down to Jon.

"He told me he had to empty his 401K to survive!"

There’s nothing wrong with earning money for the family, but isn’t Jon able to access any of the money? Why would he have to empty his 401K to survive?

There’s even more about Kate’s greedy ways from Star:

Jon & Kate Plus 8 wife Kate Gosselin got on her high horse Tuesday slamming reports that she may have been cheating with her hunky married bodyguard. But what she didn’t know when she spoke to a magazine was the source of those explosive revelations!
In the May 25 issue of Star, we have an exclusive tell-all with the couple who were closer to Kate than anyone else — her brother Kevin Kreider and his wife, "Aunt" Jodi. They were mainstays of the TLC show for its first three seasons.

Kevin and Jodi’s shocking revelations about Jon and Kate include:

• Jon told Kevin he believes Kate is having an affair with bodyguard Steve Neild;
• Kate drew up a secret contract that allows Jon to have girlfriends on the side – as long as he stays on the show;
• She has cut off her entire family — even her parents — and spends less and less time with her eight children while she promotes her career;
• Her explosive temper and controlling ways have led to bitter battles between the TV couple.

And Kevin and Jodi reveal why they are no longer on the hit show. Kate freaked out when TLC suggested they be paid for their time. "No one else is getting paid but us!" Kate screamed at her brother. "We’re done!’

Kevin has a simple message for her family members. "Kate and Jon, I urge you to focus on what’s most important, and stop trading your marriage and family for fame and fortune!"

Us Weekly reports that Kate might be having an affair with her bodyguard, Steve Neild. A family source said:

"Jon threatened to hire a private investigator."

An employee at a recent promotional appearance for their TLC reality show said:

The married Neild, who once worked for Bill Clinton, and is often photographed not wearing his wedding band, were "very physical, often touching each other."

Is Kate really so important that she needs a bodyguard? She must have a huge ego!

A neighbor says Jon sleeps in an apartment above the garage in the Gosselins’ new $1.1 million home. A family source says:

"Jon says it’s over. Kate doesn’t want to work on it, he doesn’t want to work on it."

The family source is most likely Kate’s brother.

We’ll see if all this drama is just to bring more attention to the show, or if Jon and Kate will be getting a real divorce. With 8 kids, a divorce would be horrible.

Kate even told People magazine she is struggling with her marriage:

"I don’t know that we’re in the same place anymore, that we want the same thing," she says quietly. "I’ve been struggling with the question of ’Who is this person?’ for a while. I remember where I was the first time I heard her name. It’s one of those things where you can try to make it go away, but there’s blaring, red flashing lights."

The name to which Kate refers belongs to 23-year-old Deanna Hummel, whose brother later claimed she’d been having a months-long affair with Jon.

For Kate, who has referred to her husband as "my balance, my strength and my stability," to now consider a future apart has been heartbreaking but not impossible. "You can’t imagine yourself in a certain position when all this first happens, but you can do it over some months," she says.

"It’s a lot like when I was first pregnant with the babies, and it was pure shock and denial. But over time I imagined six cribs in my house, and six car seats. When your mind is ready to go there, you can accept any number of scenarios."

Kate does have hope, however, that her marriage can be saved. "I will never give up hope that every member of our family can be absolutely happy again," she says.

So Star says Kate agreed to let Jon have a girlfriend on the side, and Us Weekly says Jon is concerned that Kate is cheating with the bodyguard, then Kate tells people she and Jon are having problems but she will never give up hope of a happy relationship, even though she has become mentally prepared to raise the kids without Jon. It sounds like Kate planned this from the start. First get the show and the books bringing income in, make herself a celebrity, cut Jon off in the bedroom then tell him it’s okay to find a girlfriend, start sleeping with the bodyguard to make Jon go crazy mad, and finally file for divorce when Jon looks like a cheating dog, and keep all the money. Pure evil.

Star magazine is reporting that Kate Gosselin might be cheating on her husband Jon Gosselin. Do they have an open marriage? Star reports:

It’s no secret that the Jon & Kate Plus 8 dad has been stepping out on his wife. But could Kate also be straying?
Amid Jon Gosselin’s latest cheating scandal — he’s been linked to 23-year-old teacher Deanna Hummel — Star has learned that he may not have been the first to stray.

"I heard Kate was getting way too close with her personal trainer, so Jon started cheating," Trisha Berlin, a fellow Pennsylvanian tells Star. Kate is also being linked to her hunky bodyguard — known as "Mr. Gray" to bloggers.

While the money-minded Kate crisscrosses the country on her book tour for Eight Little Faces — with the gray-haired bodyguard — Jon’s left to his own devices back home, which is where the trouble has been brewing. Last month the dad was photographed leaving a Reading, Pa. bar with Hummel at 2 a.m. And, as Star reported, he flirted up a storm (and played beer pong) with a bevy of Juniata College co-eds at a house party in Huntingdon, Pa., in February.

"Jon goes out to meet other women because Kate has given him the cold shoulder," explains a source.

On Thursday, Kate addressed the cheating scandal during an interview on the Today show, saying: "We just need to weather this storm, just like all the other storms that we’ve been through."

It seems Jon might just be horny, because his wife is given all her lovin to other men. If this is true, then maybe Kate cares more about herself than she does about her kids and family life.