Lindsay Lohan is still publicly fighting with Samantha Ronson, despite telling E! back in March:

“People need to stop saying Sam and I are fighting."

“I’m really a good person and I have a good heart and just want to work. The only reason I go to clubs is to hear Samantha spin or be normal.”

“I don’t drink, I don’t do drugs and I don’t lie."

“My past is my past … I’m not the same person and I don’t make the same mistakes."

“If people would just leave my personal life alone then I could land a great role. But all the sicko fans and the noise is so distracting.”

Of course we know that Lindsay is a habitual liar, and she is making even worse mistakes now that ever before, because she still hasn’t hit rock bottom.

Last week Lindsay tweeted a message to Samantha Ronson on Twitter calling Sam a cheater, which is odd because supposedly their are not dating, according to them. Lindsay said:

@samantharonson BUT YOU DID perform to her..you JUST told me that your friends are worth more than i am 2 your family & that i’m gross*thx

Lindsay can’t be honest enough with herself to realize she is a liar, who relies so much on other people to control her feelings, she’ll stay with someone who makes her feel terrible every day, and it doesn’t matter if it is a person making her feel terrible, a bottle of booze, or drugs. Everything that happens to Lindsay is also someone, or something, else’s fault.

Lindsay Lohan tweeted on Saturday a love note to Samantha Ronson, along with a link to the image below:

@samantharonson i love you baby! miss u.jpg

Lindsay needs some help growing out of her emotional insecurity, so she can be her own person, rather than clinging to whoever shows interest in her, like a really ugly lesbian, that even a lesbian wouldn’t be attracted to. Lindsay will only find true love when she stops being so needy.

Lindsay Lohan is rumored to be 95 lbs, which is not hard to believe just by looking at her. A friend close to Lindsay told People:

"She is a self-destructive person. It’s all part of her cry for attention. She wants Sam [Ronson, her ex-girlfriend] to see how bad she’s hurting and she wants Hollywood to see her as a ’tortured artist’ who is wasting away … This is a symptom of something much bigger – a desperate need to be noticed."

No surprise there. Another source, this one close to Ronson, says:

"When Lindsay is off-balance, she’ll pull out every issue you can imagine. She doesn’t eat. She stays up all night and sleeps all day, so she misses meals. When she is doing good, when she is happy, her appetite is healthy and her weight is healthy."

All of Lindsay’s wasting away has worked to get Ronson’s sympathy. Lindsay even visited Ronson at her home on Thursday to talk until late at night.

While we are happy to see Ronson trying what she can to help Lindsay move on, Lindsay really needs professional help. Dramatic weight loss like this is a sign of mental instability.

Lindsay Lohan spent Friday night drinking a lot of alcohol on Friday night according to OK! magazine. Lindsay started her night at a birthday party for James Krisel. Lindsay was at the party with five guys including Patrick Aufdenkamp. A party guest said:

"People were pouring vodka into her red party cup all night. She was way beyond incoherent. She was totally smashed and couldn’t even form a sentence. She looked so lonely and lost."

Lindsay stayed at the get-together until just before 3 a.m. and then moved on to her next pre-dawn party.

We’re not at all surprised. Once an addict always an addict.

The Beverly Hills cops confirmed that Samantha Ronson family members asked about a restraining order following Samantha’s breakup with Lindsay Lohan. Ronson’s attorney, David Bass, clarifies that:

"Samantha has no plan to request a restraining order. There is no basis for one."

A source close to Samantha says:

"Sam does not want a restraining order against Lindsay Lohan. Sam had nothing to do with the restraining order against Lindsay that the police are talking about."

"Sam and Lindsay are broken up, but Sam does not feel she’s in any danger whatsoever. She thinks the whole thing is absurd."

Another source said Lindsay and Samantha "are totally communicating."

Lindsay is under the delusional impression that her and Samantha are not over, but just taking a break, we’ve heard that one before. Lindsay told the paparazzi while out shopping in Century City in the video above:

"You make it seem like it’s over, it’s not. People take breaks … it’s OK … it’s normal … focus on themselves."

Hollywood.tv reported on Twitter two hours ago that:

"Lindsay Lohan was out last night at a Tattoo Parlor. She was calling the paps to see who Samantha was with at the Chateau Marmont."

Samantha might want to rethink the whole restraining order before Lindsay does something really desperate and crazy. We’ll let you know if we see Lindsay shopping for umbrellas.

Lindsay’s paternal grandmother Marilyn, who lives in Long Island, New York, says she is "heartbroken" to see her granddaughter this way:

"We’d all like to reach out to her. We’re all here for her and we’d love to see her. Me, as a grandmother, I’d like to try and help her out, but she’s not here, she’s in L.A."

"I think she needs her family in her life, but they’re not. They should be. I haven’t seen her in over a year. I don’t know what happened. I’m heartbroken."

The elder Lohan also blames the young Hollywood lifestyle of nightclubs and late-night partying. "What happened is that it was too much too fast. And she was on her own too early. She was too young," she says. "And they get into that party scene. It’s very hard for them."

So what’s Marilyn’s message for her granddaughter? "I love her, call me, I’m here for her, and anything I can do, please get in touch."

And like any supportive relative, Marilyn still has high hopes for Lohan’s career: "She’s very talented. She always was. I know she’ll come back."

As for splitting with Ronson, grandma approves: "I don’t think she should be with her."

Apparently grandma doesn’t approve of Lindsay’s relationship with Samantha. Now we know why Lindsay hasn’t called her. Anyone who tries to give Lindsay advise that might put her on a path that isn’t self destructive gets put on hold.

Lindsay is an addict. Everything Lindsay does she become addicted to, even relationships. Before this is over, Lindsay may end up in legal trouble again. This has nothing to do with life in Los Angeles, it has everything to do with Lindsay’s narcissistic, obsessive compulsive, addictive personality. Lindsay would have the same problems no matter where she lives.