Perez Hilton Makes Another Lame non Apology

Perez Hilton has sort of apologized twice in the last week since he got punched, but with this new apology his words mean nothing. Perez says "sorry" but there is no meaning, since sorry if followed by more bitterness, blame, and attention seeking as he continues to excuse his behavior by pretending he was the victim, when in fact he was the aggressor, and even said he intentionally tried to provoke a violent response, which he got.
The statement made late last night does point out his hatred for GLAAD, whom Perez worked for because he believed in their cause. In fact Perez continued to support GLAAD right up until they demanded an apology from him for using the word "faggot" against a straight man. Perez especially supported GLAAd while they helped him get Isaiah Washington fired from Grey’s Anatomy for using the word "faggot" in a casual way with someone who was straight.
The most significant part of Perez’s statement is his admission that he wrongly accused and labeled Isaiah Washington as a homophobe, of course it’s too late now that Isaiah has been black listed in Hollywood thanks to Perez.
Perez’s statement reflects the start of his realization that his behavior got him punched, and the world is happy to see it so that he might start to change his bad behavior. Instead, Perez continues to be angry and hateful, and is looking for ways to blame others, and pretend he is a victim to avoid taking responsibility for his actions.
A real apology comes with the admission that a person’s behavior was wrong, which indicates they are taking responsibility for their actions, and a statement that describes how he made the other person feel which caused them to lash out and punch him, which is empathy for the victim, and Perez is not the victim in this case. Perez suffers, in my opinion, from several borderline personality disorders, Perez appears to be narcissistic, histrionic, and appears to use projection when blaming others.
The lawsuit against Polo Molina should be dropped, and so should the charges, unless Perez can bring forward witnesses. Even at the time Perez didn’t know who hit him, and he falsely accused both Will.i.am, and Will.i.am’s bodyguards. We just can’t trust someone who keeps changing their story to fit their current need to vent their anger as Perez does every minute of the day.
Perez has not learned his lesson, and his apology rings hollow. Perez really needs to get some anger management, and domestic violence counseling, or more to understand his behavior, and how it affects others.
GLAAD issued the following statement in response to Perez’s non-apology apology:
"Perez Hilton’s acknowledgement that words can hurt is an important step in the right direction, and while his change of tone is welcome, he still seems to be justifying the use of the slurs," said GLAAD spokesman Rashad Robinson.
"A statement that stops short of apologizing for and disavowing the use of that slur doesn’t get us where we need to be—these are vulgar anti gay slurs that feed a climate of hatred and intolerance that continues to put our community in harm’s way. When someone from our community uses a far-reaching media platform to promote these kinds of slurs, it sends a message that it’s OK to use these dehumanizing words."
The gay rights organization then called on Hilton to cease and desist from using such "demeaning and defamatory language" against any group on his website.
Perez expressed his hatred for GLAAD, and anger they didn’t overlook his use of the word "faggot." It seems Perez is redirecting his anger from Will.i.am to his new target which is GLAAD. Perez is always angry at someone or something.
Perez is an immature brat who is angry at the world, and unhappy because of it. Despite any success Perez has had, he has no real friends, because no one really likes him. In Los Angeles most friendships are superficial, because people use each other all the time, and it’s only in Los Angeles that Perez can even manage fake relationships. If Perez’s blog were ever shut down he could be found in some shabby one-room apartment drowning his sorrows in food and drugs, until he runs out of money. Even at his lowest lows, Perez would have someone to blame other than himself.
Perez needs to go away for awhile until he figures out what sorry really means.
GLAAD Wants Perez Hilton to Apologize Gay Slur
Gay & Lesbian Alliance Against Defamation, GLAAD, is not taking the side of Perez Hilton in his use of the word faggot against Will.i.am who is heterosexual. In fact, GLAAD is asking Perez to apologize for using the word faggot to attack Will.i.am.
Perez used the word faggot, and more, to provoke a violent response from Will.i.am, but instead someone else responded with a punch to Perez’s face, and let some air out of his ego. After returning home Perez continued to verbally assault Will.i.am, while at the same time referring to himself as a victim. Perez said in his video to Will.i.am:
"I don’t need to respect you, and you’re a fag. You’re gay, and stop being such a faggot, motherf*cker."
Perez also attacked Fergie with profanities.
In response Rashad Robinson, senior director of Media Programs at GLAAD said:
"These are vulgar antigay slurs that feed a climate of hatred and intolerance toward our community. For someone in our own community to use it to attack another person by saying that it is ’The worst possible thing that thug would ever want to hear,’ is incredibly dangerous."
"It legitimizes use of a slur that is often linked to violence against our community. And it sends a message that it is OK to attempt to dehumanize people by exploiting antigay attitudes."
"We have reached out to Hilton and asked him to apologize for promoting this antigay slur, and we would ask media outlets to avoid repetition of the slur in their coverage of this story."
"While not all the facts in this case are known, the violence that appears to have been committed against Perez Hilton is unacceptable and ought to be condemned in the strongest possible terms."
Perez wrote on Twitter that he was shocked at the number of people who said he deserved to be hit. Here at HG we pointed out that Perez did everything he could to provoke a violent response, and that is what he got. We respect the fact that whoever hit Perez didn’t continue on to a worse beating, and showed some restraint. When one person pushes another person’s button to deliberately provoke violence, the other person’s brain reacts before the person even realizes it. It’s called a fight-or-flight response. It’s hard wired in all of us. Perez knew what he was doing, so he has no right to claim he is a victim, and by doing so Perez shames real victims.
Perez responded to the GLAAD request for an apology, not with an apology, but with this statement to avoid taking responsibility for his actions, and the consequences of his actions:
"I am saddened GLAAD chose to victimize me further by criticizing me for how I nonviolently dealt with a very scary situation that, unfortunately, turned violent. While I doubt I will get an apology from GLAAD, nor do I expect one, I would just hope people know how difficult it is to intellectualize a situation and think rationally when a thug disguised as a musician is screaming at your face and intimidating you. I am just very fortunate and grateful that nothing more serious happened to me."
During the confrontation Perez knew exactly what he was saying, and said later in his video he wanted to provoke Will.i.am by offending him as much as he could. Too late to try to make excuses now as if he was somehow confused. Can’t lie your way out of this one Perez. Perez is so self absorbed, and pathologically narcissistic, he actually expects GLAAD to condone his behavior, and apologize to him. Perez has learned from his female friends that once they are labeled a victim they are not required to answer for their own bad behavior, and they can be as mean, vicious, and vindictive as they want to the man they claim hurt them. The problem for mentally ill Perez is the fact that he is still a male, so he will not be treated like a woman. In fact, Perez may have his day in court, but not get what he expects.
We are relieved GLAAD is standing by their beliefs. Perez has already done a lot of damage for gays in this country, and his hypocritical use of the word faggot has set gays back to where they started in that fight.
GLAAD may expect an apology from Perez, but he is neither man nor woman enough to own up to his mistake and apologize. Perez cannot even act appropriately within the framework of his own gay community. It’s no wonder no one will date him.
Perez Hilton Crying After Being Punched

Perez Hilton got into a physical altercation with a Will.i.am supporter, after an angry exchange of words with Will.i.am from the Black Eyed Peas.
What led to the violence was when Perez said in his angry voice (fight video below):
"You’re not a f**king artist … you’re a f**king faggot."
Perez said in a video after he got back home, that he said whatever he could to provoke Will.i.am, and Perez added he knew what he said may provoke violence.
Perez got his wish. Someone hit Perez after he used the word faggot repeatedly. First Perez falsely accused Will.i.am, and his bodyguards, for hitting him. Then Perez changed his story saying it was Will.i.am’s manager Polo Molina, who was later arrested under suspicion pending further investigation. It’s hard to know if the allegation against Molina is even accurate, because Perez says in his video he was in such a state of shock after he was hit he didn’t know who hit him, what happened, or what was going on, so unless someone else testifies it would seem Molina will not be convicted of anything unless he were to confess.
Perez may try to label himself a victim, but Perez admits he deliberately tried to provoke a violent response, and human behavior being what it is, Perez got a violent response.
Perez said he didn’t do this for publicity, but he is hard wired to seek publicity. After being hit Perez twittered for a while to talk about being hit before he finally picked up the phone to call police. After getting home from Toronto Perez made an angry and vile video where he once again went on a profanity filled tirade using slurs and profanities, as is usual for Perez. It’s really hard to feel any sympathy for someone so prone to anger, and is constantly in attack mode.
The video Perez made ends with Perez working himself into so much anger he finally starts to fake cry. The entire video is an exact copy of Cris Crocker’s crying Leave Brintey Alone video, and is meant to go viral … for more publicity. Rule number 1 in the Perez play book: turn everything into publicity.
Perez is a bully that finally got a taste of his own medicine. It’s hard to imagine a jury convicting Molina for doing anything more than defending himself from Perez’s verbal attacks, and attempts to publicly humiliate Will.i.am, if Molina even threw the punches. The video Perez made only highlights further the fact he is a scumbag who continues to attack Will.i.am, and Fergie who was not even involved, even after getting punched.
Perez is a bully and a hypocrite. He may not like how it feels to be attacked himself, but now we know his that Perez suffers from low self esteem. Perez attacks others, and put others down, so he can feel good about himself, the only problem is, there is nothing to like about Perez Hilton, and he knows it.
Perez appears to think it’s okay for him to use a slur like “faggot” to attack a straight man, and for him to direct hate against someone else just as long as that hate isn’t being directed against him.
Although violence is not appropriate in any situation, we applaud Will.i.am for standing up against Perez, and we applaud whoever punched Perez for holding back and not giving that bully the much harsher beating he probably earned.
Will.i.am responded to Perez’s false allegation of assault.
Will.i.am describes the events that led to Perez being punched, and claims a fan punched Perez.

Perez Hilton Approved Child Abuse

Perez Hilton had something like his millionth book signing last week where only a handful of readers showed up. This Perez reader brought along her son (at least we think it was her son). The young boy who appears to be about 5 or 6 years-old was wearing a shirt purchased from Perez that prominently displays the F word. Perez proudly posed for a picture with the pair.
For us this confirms that Perez is the kind of person who lacks all morals and values, even when it comes to the treatment of children. We would have told the mother the shirt was not appropriate for anyone under the age of 18 years-old, and asked her to remove the shirt from the boy or leave. With Perez however, anything goes.
Parading a boy around in public with an inappropriate shirt like that is a form of child abuse in our opinion.
The next time Perez writes how terrible it is that someone abused their child remember this picture, so Perez doesn’t fool you into thinking he is someone who sincerely cares.
Rather than constantly promoting special rights for gays, maybe Perez should prove his value to society by donating some money to a cause for kids, and donate some time to help kids as well. Actions are stronger than insincere well worded apologies. Yes, we think Perez should do something to prove to us that he doesn’t condone the kind of child abuse we see in this picture.
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If you don't mind me adding to your point Somesense, ... and the parent here is following Perez Hilton's example, ...- Somesense
If that is the mother of the child....that's the problem. Kids want to be like their parents...and their parents ...
Bill O’Reilly Nails a Gay Activist
Bill O’Reilly debated Miss California, Carrie Prejean, losing the Miss USA crown for expressing her opinion on gay marriage with gay activist Wayne Besen.
Bill O’Reilly ran circles around Besen, who continually contradicted himself. Gay activists like Besen and Perez Hilton are fascists. They don’t like the fact that the majority of California citizens, and Americans don’t approve of their behavior, even though they are tolerated. Rather than tolerate heterosexual opinion in turn gay activists take a divisive stance against heterosexuals like Miss California which will only lead to less tolerance for the gay agenda. All that gay activist nastiness will work against them going forward.
In America the minority, like gay activists, don’t rule, the majority does.
Perez Hilton, and the USA pageant, owe Miss California, Carrie Prejean, an apology. THEY made Miss USA a political platform to promote gay marriage, not Miss California. The question Perez asked should never have been allowed. Miss USA is supposed to be about women, of which most, if not all, are heterosexual. Gay and lesbian issues should have been left at the door.
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