Kate Hudson took Lance Armstrong to meet her mom, Goldie Hawn, for a late lunch Tuesday afternoon at Ivy at the Shore in Santa Monica, California. This seems like it’s getting serious.

Notice how mother and daughter have the same pose, which are mirror opposite.

Goldie Hawn talks about keeping her view on a happy relationship, with marriage:

"When sex has gone out of marriage you’ve got to figure out if you’re going to be friends or break up. Sex is important. I think it’s a way to create more sexuality and I still feel that way about Kurt [Russell]. There are times when we want to kill each other but you’ve got to play. It’s really important. What I do like about the fact that we’re not married is that when I wake up in the morning I really do wake up fresh and re-born every day. I know that I could walk out at any moment but we chose to be together."

Marriage is a contract, that has no definite terms when it is entered into, unlike every other contract in America, so it usually ends very badly for one of the people involved, and the kids. Goldie and Kurt Russell have been together a very long time, and they are not married. They stay together because they choose to, not because they are afraid they’ll end up in court.