The ex boyfriend of Deanna Hummel, who is trying to sell an intimate tape of them getting it on, has uploaded the video for your viewing pleasure. The ex is probably hoping to get a higher price with a sample. His web site has some still shots.

If you don’t know who Deanna Hummel is, well she’s the woman accused of having an affair with Jon Gosselin from the show Jon and Kate Plus 8.

Click here to see the video. The video is not for kids, or something you’d want to watch at work.

There are rumors that Kate is cheating too, so we’re hoping she’s got a tape out floating around.

Kate Gosselin appeared on many shows this last week, including The Today Show, Larry King Live, and The Rachael Ray Show set to air next Tuesday on which Kate said:

"It’s one of those things that we’re just handling privately… We’re just taking it one step at a time and I’m trying to walk through it. The focus remains on our kids. It has always been there and will continue to be there. One day at a time, like we’ve always done. One hour at a time, one minute at a time, and my life’s been like that. It’s definitely another learning experience… I look at life through the eyes of my kinds in that i’ve always said life experiences… I feel like you can learn something from every situation and I am absolutely learning a lot from this… I do not care how you see me. Call me crazy, but it’s out there because I am not perfect and I will never boast that I’m perfect. Everyone makes mistakes."

We hope Kate and Jon Gosselin work through the cheating allegations. Kate didn’t deny that Jon cheated, but we are glad Kate is focusing on the kids. Jon should consider focusing more on his wife and kids as well.

Jason Hummel revealed more details about the alleged affair Jon Gosselin had with Deanna Hummel. Jason, who is Deanna’s older brother and roommate, said:

"She’s a nice girl, not a homewrecker. He is a bad liar. This isn’t healthy for her. But she is refusing to help herself, so here I am trying to help her myself. I hope this clears the air."

At the Hummel house, Jason says Deanna and Jon would "pretty much stay locked away like two teenagers. It was weird. He’s a grown man."

"A lot of the time, it was pretty, um, gross listening to her, you know, um, how do I say this? The walls are thin. Let’s just say that. I mean, no one wants to hear his sister having sex, let alone with a married dude who’s, like, almost twice her age and who has eight kids and a maybe crazy wife. Ick. Nast."

On April 26, while his wife Kate was traveling, Jon had Deanna over to sunbathe in his family’s front lawn in the photo below. This was just seven days after they had first been photographed together at Legends Lounge at 2 a.m. in pictures that show he is not wearing his wedding band.

Both Jon and Deanna denied the affair, and called Jason a liar, so Jason, who says he was not paid for the above Us Weekly interview, responded:

"I noticed that in both her and Jon’s recent comments, that neither of them addresses the fact that he was sleeping over at our house and was videotaped leaving our house at 7:30 in the morning…Neither of them addresses why she was photographed in a bikini in his front yard while Kate was out of town. It is what it is. I have no reason to lie."

"I have a bad past and I’m not proud of it. I was selling drugs. I didn’t get a jail sentence, I’m on probation. When I made my mistake, I was the same age as my sister is now, making her mistake. Hopefully she can learn from it."

Jason sounds credible to us. If Jon wasn’t having an affair, then why was he spending so much time with Deanna, rather than his wife, or kids?

Last week, Jon Gosselin was photographed leaving a bar in Reading, Penn., with a woman named Deanna Hummel. Hummel later came forward to say that she and Gosselin are just friends, but her brother, Jason Hummel, claims Deanna and Gosselin, a married man with eight kids at home, have been having an affair for three months.

"These allegations are false and just plain hurtful. I adjust to the attention that comes from being in the public eye, I need to be more careful and aware of who I am associating with and where I am spending my time. But the bottom line is, I did not cheat on Kate. I am sorry for putting my family in this awkward position, given some poor decisions and bad judgments I’ve made recently. I am working through this difficult time with my family. My family is my top priority."

We don’t believe you Jon. If your family is your "top priority," then why are you hanging out with other women, alone, until 2 am?

Earlier Wednesday, Deanna Hummel said she was devastated by her brother’s comments:

"My brother is making this all up. I can’t even stomach the lies he’s saying about me."

We don’t believe you either Deanna. Cheaters have a tendency to lie.

When asked by Entertainment Weekly whether they will address this on air, Kate Gosselin said:

"I think we will address the bigger picture, regarding the very public focus on our family and the stress it’s caused in our relationship. Our main focus is on our family and working through this."

We feel sorry for Kate, because today it has been revealed by an ex boyfriend of Deanna Hummel, that Deanna made an intimate tape with him. Deanna’s ex boyfriend is trying to sell the tape. Click here to see some still shots.

Despite Jon’s alleged indiscretions, we hope he and Kate can work it out and stay together for the sake of the kids.

Jon Gosselin, from Jon and Kate Plus 8, is very unhappy about being caught out with another woman at 2 am. The woman’s name is Deanna Hummel. Jon released this statement:

"Like most people, I have male and female friends and I’m not going to end my friendships just because I’m on TV. However, being out with them late at night showed poor judgment on my part. What makes me sick is that my careless behavior has put my family in this uncomfortable position. My family is the most important thing in my life and it kills me that these allegations have hurt them."

In February, Jon was spotted hanging out with a couple of female college students from Juniata College, located near his hometown in Pennsylvania. The girls who met Jon that night said he didn’t flirt with anyone. Alex-Rae Campbell, a college student who attended the party said:

"He was very well-behaved, a gentleman. He talked more about his wife than his kids. He was very friendly, very approachable."

The fact that Jon was out at a party without his wife mingling with college girls didn’t seem to raise any flags with them.

Jon admitted recently:

"Kate’s career is taking off and I’m a bit lost. This struggle has definitely put some tension in our marriage."

Jon seems to be along for the ride in this marriage, but still wants to explore being single. We hope he gives up going out alone with female friends at 2 am when he should be at home in bed alongside his wife and kids.

If Jon hasn’t cheated yet, he certainly is putting himself in situations where his ability to resist temptation is will be tested.