It’s safe to say at this point, Pamela Anderson married Kid Rock with plans to divorce him to get money out of the marriage. Apparently Pam’s plan to get child support by having a Kid Rock baby ended with an unconfirmed miscarriage.

Friends of Kid Rock (real name Bob Richie) say his marriage to Pam Anderson ended after four months because he was tired of staying home with the kids while she was out partying.

Yesterday, we told you how the final straw came when Richie exploded after watching his wife in the "Borat" movie – calling her a "whore" and a "slut."

But, "Bob rearranged his life for Pamela," a Rock pal tells us. "He moved from Detroit – something he said he would never do – and moved his son to L.A. to be with her."

But once Rock was in L.A., he found himself a single father to not only his son, Robert James Richie Jr., but to Anderson’s two kids, Brandon and Dylan, as well.

"Pamela would go out almost every night and end up at [photographer] David LaChapelle’s studio," Rock’s friend says. "Bob was home alone with the three kids."

The "Baywatch" babe confirmed that scenario in this month’s Blender, which quotes her as saying, "When I go to Hollywood, I start at the Chateau Marmont and then I usually end up naked in David LaChapelle’s studio taking crazy pictures. That’s usually a night for me. Four or five in the morning, lying across a car in David’s studio."

Kid Rock was also said to suspect that Anderson was less than truthful about the miscarriage she claims she had. "Bob never saw any proof or heard from her at any time that she was pregnant. She announced she had a miscarriage. He flew to Canada [where she’s shooting "Blonde and Blonder"] to be with her and she went out every night."

As for marital assets, Rock’s pal says, "Pamela doesn’t have the money in the relationship – he does. She also refused to sign a pre-nup that he asked her to."

A rep for Anderson said, "There was an agreement there would be a post-nup, which was being negotiated up until they split. Pam is a wonderful mother, always there for her kids, and has only been to David’s twice since she married. And unfortunately, she absolutely had a miscarriage and only found out she was pregnant a few days before."

An Anderson friend adds, "Every time Pam was shooting her movie, her mother came to watch the kids because Bob was in Detroit recording an album. He never once single-parented her kids."

All those wedding ceremonies, and a divorce after four months to show for it. These messages were posted on Pamela Anderson’s web site over the past two days:

11/28/2006
More divorce…

I’m very concerned with the press on mine and Bob’s divorce. I know I have people who want to defend me or people who want to defend Bob, but my children can read – and I’d like to resolve this amicably – not fueling fires – and with dignity.

Kids don’t know the difference between fact and tabloid …does anybody?

Truth is Bob is great in many ways – we just don’t belong together…we mutually agree. I love my children, he loves his son…we both have wonderful family and friends as support going thru this time.
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11/27/2006
Divorce

Yes, it’s true.
Unfortunately impossible.

Just three months after they wed in St. Tropez, Pamela Anderson has filed for divorce from Kid Rock (real name Bob Richie) because of his "male insecurity and major anger issues," a close pal said.

The final straw was a bellicose blowup Rock threw at Universal Studio chief Ron Meyer’s Beverly Hills house two weeks ago.

"Ron Meyer held a screening of ’Borat’ at his house for a bunch of people, including Pam and Bob," says an Anderson pal. "It was the first time Bob had seen the movie, and, well, he didn’t like it."

The hugely popular film shows Sasha Baron Cohen – in character as Borat Sagdiyev – falling in love with Anderson after seeing her in a "Baywatch" rerun, then driving across America in order to propose marriage to her.

Her friend says, "Bob started screaming at Pam, saying she had humiliated herself and telling her, ’You’re nothing but a whore! You’re a slut! How could you do that movie?’ – in front of everyone. It was very embarrassing.

"Pam thought he could have a sense of humor about the movie. She was in on the gag from the very beginning and loved doing the movie. And on the eve of what was supposed to be a very positive thing, he made it an awful night.

"Ever since that night, it has been icicles between them," the friend relates. "Bob is just a very unhappy and angry man. Pam is very disenchanted and sad. You know, there are reasons why she never married him before. Those reasons disappeared while they were together on a boat in St. Tropez, but she knows now that they never went away. The reality is he is an insecure, angry man."

Anderson, who suffered a miscarriage this month, left her Malibu home Sunday until Rock could pack up his stuff and leave. She took her two boys, Brandon and Dylan (sired by ex-husband Tommy Lee), to Shutters in Santa Monica.

"Pam is just very happy to not be in the same house with so much passive-aggressive hostility in it," the friend adds.

Rock’s rep didn’t return calls, and Anderson’s manager declined comment.

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Pamela Anderson and Kid Rock have decided to end their four month marriage, Anderson’s rep has confirmed.

The papers, which were filed by Anderson, 39, cites "irreconcilable differences" as the reason for the split. The former Baywatch actress has hired famed celebrity divorce lawyer Neal Hersh, whose clients include Kim Bassinger, Halle Berry, Drew Barrymore and Denise Richards.

Anderson and Rock held a much-publicized marriage "celebration ceremony" aboard a yacht in St. Tropez July 29, but formalized their wedding when they returned to Los Angeles in more private ceremony at the Beverly Hills Courthouse. They also married in separate ceremonies in Nashville and Detroit.

Earlier this month, Anderson miscarried what would have been her and Rock’s first child together. On November 10, Anderson’s rep, Tracy Nguyen, asked that “Pamela’s privacy be respected at this time.”

From 1995 to 1998, Anderson was married to rocker Tommy Lee, with whom she had two boys, Dylan, 8, and Brandon, 10. It was Rock’s first marriage.

Anderson is currently in Vancouver filming Blonde and Blonder with Denise Richards. She recently earned rave reviews for her cameo in the film Borat: Cultural Learnings of America for Make Benefit Glorious Nation of Kazakhstan.

Check out the couples about to be published GQ photo-shoot, and interview here.

Kid Rock and Pamela Anderson did a photo shoot and interview with GQ. For the full article, pick up the December issue of GQ. Here’s an excerpt:

So what is a typical Friday night at the Rock-Anderson estate?
Pam: Go ahead, babe.
Kid: Usually, we give the oldest kid the fake ID to run to the liquor store for us, teach him how to do it.
Pam: He looks 21.
Kid: There’s no curfew. Kids get to eat Twinkies. Stay up and watch movies. Pretty much a typical middle-American lifestyle.

What’s on TV?
Pam: We watch sports. The kids watch sports. NASCAR.
Kid: I watch NASCAR. Everybody else cock-blocks us.

So, big wedding in St. Tropez. Tommy Hilfiger. Lars Ulrich. Cindy Crawford. Who made the guest list?
Kid: Whoever could afford to come. [Pam laughs] None of my friends were there.
Pam: They’re all your friends, baby. You hang out in St. Tropez.
Kid: None of my friends were there.

But, Kid, I heard the wedding was so emotional that you cried.
Pam: Wrong, guy! Where’d you get your information? You reading the Enquirer?

No, People magazine.
Pam: That’s really reliable.

Okay, what really happened?
Kid: Here’s something: It was ours. It was our memories, and that’s how I feel about it. You don’t see me gabbing about this shit, ever.
Pam: But then there’s me. What do you want to know?

Is it true you sang a duet, “Sympathy for the Devil,” at the wedding?
Kid: What?
Pam: “Sympathy for the Devil”? Oh no. That was the afterparty. And he was DJ’ing it and changing all the words, I think, as far as I remember-which is not a lot.
Kid: I can’t be held accountable for that unless somebody’s got video.
Pam: Video doesn’t mean anything…

And, Kid, I heard you sang U2’s “With or Without You” to your new bride.
Kid: I wouldn’t do that. That just takes the gay meter right to the end.
Pam: That’s enough with the gay word. That’s not nice.
Kid: It’s a new word. All the kids are using it.
Pam: No, they’re not. As long as it’s used in a positive context.

Who wrote the thank-you notes for all the wedding gifts?
Kid: It’s more like “you’re welcome” notes. “You’re welcome for the great party.”