Sanjaya Malakar Says He’s Not Gay

Sanjaya Malakar, but he says he’s always been popular with women. Maybe that’s because he cries like a little girl. "I’ve always gotten along with girls better because I was raised by women," Malakar says.

Malakar, whose parents divorced when he was 3, says his ease with women comes from being close to his mom and his sister, Shyamali, who were his biggest influence growing up in Seattle. However, getting along with girls didn’t always work to his benefit.

"I got teased in school because people figured I must be gay because I understand women," the phenomenally popular American Idol castoff says. "I think that’s why guys didn’t like me, because I got along with girls so well. When I went up to girls they would give me a hug and a kiss on the cheek like I was their gay friend. However, I was the straight guy that understood them."

As for his dating past, Malakar, who is now 17, says, "I had a girlfriend but she became clingy, and I didn’t want to get into a really serious relationship because I was 16. He adds, "I just wanted to date and have fun," he says.