First of all, I don’t think marriage should …
Comment posted Nicolas Tse Demands Paternity Test for Lucas by optimistic.
first of all, I don’t think marriage should be taken so lightly. rumors are rumors — i don’t think they should just get a divorce because of that. especially since they even have a child together.
given the possibility of that cecilia did cheat and the child may not be nic’s, she DID in the end marry him right? not some other guy she supposedly have an affair with? there has to be some love… or atleast some connection. why would she marry him if she didnt love him? why didnt she just have an affair with him like she supposedly did with other guys? also, abortion is such an easy thing these days, why would she let herself be given the “consequence” of marriage to nic if she didnt want to spend the rest of her life with him?
don’t get me wrong, but i am in no way crazy over cecilia or nic.. but i think this scandal has gotten wayy over board.
i hope nic would listen to his wife’s side of the story before deciding to do something he may later regret, and definitely consider counceling. afterall, (im not oldfashioned.. BUT..) marriage is supposed to be “till death do you part” right? ..have faith in each other!!
mistakes are in the past, whats important is the future!! TRY to give 2nd chances..
i wish all those who were affected by this scandal my well wishes…
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If cheaters are repented after they had cheathed, they need to be faithful and tells the whole truth right after they cheated if they really feel guilty. Otherwise, they are just plain evil to cover up things. Who are being involved in the s@x scandal should seek wisdom and help. Honestly, I don’t think Lucas look much like Nicholas from the very beginning (before the s@x scandal takes place). Well, only God knows, too many affairs are bad!!! I am a mother of one, and I am in my twenties also, I honestly cannot stand my husband if he is ever cheated on me. If so, I will leave the marriage. Anyway, I had marriage problems too, but we are seeking alternatives to work things out. Coz, we still love ea other and try to look what’s best for our little son, younger than Lucas. My son’s name, is Gabriel.
i think nicolas should just divorice cecilia becuase cecilia doesnt even deserve nicholas in the first place. i hope the nicolas divorce cecilia and have the full custody of lucas(only if Lucas is he real son)
For the sake of Lucas, Nick be a gentleman and forgive Cecilia. If Lucas is your biological son, you should not have the second doubt. Only you both knows the truth & can work things out,instead of believing the rumours. After this Big Lesson, Cecilia grow up. You both responsible to see baby Lucas leads a normal family life!
[Colossians 3:13. Let's not be like a dog who keeps digging up old bones buries long ago.]
What happens before the marriage is one thing. After the marriage is another. Looks like Nick gave her plenty of second chances. I was in the same boat. At some point “”Enough is enough”. I took MY son away from his Mother and divorced her. Some people will never change and it looks like Cecilia is one of them.
Really sick of Cecilia..If she has fun when she’s single..it’s ok..but during the mariage time also fooling around?!..this is too sick..I’ll be very surprise if any guy still wan to married her in the future..
each case is unique. who knows what the future will hold for them.
however, i was in a similar situation like nick and cel. no camera and video involved!! i took back my cheating girlfriend. i learned my lessons, the more you tolerate a cheater, they will think you are weak and take advantage of you. like one forumite have written, “once a cheater will always be a cheater.”
nick i hope you continue to be a good dad to lucas regardless of the outcome.
as for cel, she will never be happy with one man in her life. this is her and who she have become. no matter how much love you give her she cannot change…leopard cannot change their spot. nick cut your loses and move on. give your love to a more deserving woman that can reciprocate to you honestly.
There are just so many rumors, We do not know which to believe. From the surface I thought Cecila really loves Nickolas, even when the first set of her photos were being public, I thought she had took them while her heartbreak separation with Nickolas,which make her looks like a victim, I though that Nickolas granted her with his forgiveness. But seeing after the 2nd /3rd set of photos, which we can see the true side of her – she is a cheater .Yes,I have to said Nickolas should divorce her. I don’t believe their relation can be mended. I wish Nickolas all the best. I did feel sorry for Cecila, only beause of her private photos got publiclized, but one has to responsible for their own action.
Divorce Cecilia Nicholas!!1 I hope the baby is yours! You have our support!
How would you feel if your spouse cheating on you? I think Nick. must kick her out of the house. If the baby it’s not his, he should be out too. Let’s the cheating wife take care of it. There is no respect for his husband. I don’t think anyone can be that forgiven, Raising a cheating’s wife kid that might belong to someone else.
whatever it is, the baby is always innocent.. he has done nothing wrong at all..
Leave her.. don’t be a chump wearing a green hat in life.
I think nicholas should forgive cecilia… yes she did hurt nicholas badly in tis case but evryone makes mistakes… forgive her and build a peaceful family in future…. baby lucas dun deserve to be in a separate parents family… he’s innocent. Past is past… plz give cecilia another chance….
GOOD FOR HIM.
HOW TO KNOW YOUR MARRIAGE IS DOOMED NO.1 Ur spouse is cheating on u within 5 years of the marriage(the shorter the time period the worse the problem)
I’m just surprised he’s giving her a chance at all,
I HOPE UR GRATEFUL HE EVEN CONSIDERED STAYING WITH U B***H, if u didn’t love him THEN WHY THE BL**DY H*LL DID U BOTHER MARRYING HIM ONLY TO MAKE HIS LIFE H*LL.
great to hear that he is giving her a chance for the sake of his boy, that is, IF he is his. =]
all the best to this young couple.
Nick, leave her and move on, you shouldn’t have married her at first place. You deserve better! I was also quite shock when I saw cheung’s pictures, I wonder if Nick asked her to shave.
nick…we know cheung is cheated on u…but in any % she might already put her heart to u…if lucas really ur son…i think u should forgive her…not only for the sake of ur son….forgive her as u own decision
Leave her! Once a cheater always a cheater! She’s not going to be faithful to you Nicholas! Be wise, for the sake of Lucas.. I hope he’s not his maternity dad.. That way, problem solved!
I feel really bad for the baby…
nick should divorced cecilia!! their marriage means nothing! just like playing a wedding game! both of them are not mature enough! nick should know cecilia is this kind of girl before he married her. she can be with anybody!
even though i am a female, i feel so sick of what Cheung has done behind her husband. if Tse, in any case, could take Cheung back, i just wonder what state of mind Tse has. no matter in what situation the baby is being raised up, there’re certain facts of life will go with him forever.
If Nic sure that Cecilia cheated on him, for the sake of Lucas, they should divorce. The child shouldn’t grow up in a family has that kind of relationship.
this will badly affect boy lucas in the long run no matter what. he will always be teased by his future friends, schoolmates, and everyone around him of his mother’s wrong-doing, and probably will even have those n^de pics for themselves. he’ll be psyched about it. i wonder how’s he going to be protected as grows up. as for nic and cecilia, i dont think it’ll work out even if he tries to forget. in the back of his head, he won’t. they might reconcile, but will probably split again eventually. i believe the person who’s really in bad luck of this scandal is baby lucas. poor thing.
first of all, I don’t think marriage should be taken so lightly. rumors are rumors — i don’t think they should just get a divorce because of that. especially since they even have a child together.
given the possibility of that cecilia did cheat and the child may not be nic’s, she DID in the end marry him right? not some other guy she supposedly have an affair with? there has to be some love… or atleast some connection. why would she marry him if she didnt love him? why didnt she just have an affair with him like she supposedly did with other guys? also, abortion is such an easy thing these days, why would she let herself be given the “consequence” of marriage to nic if she didnt want to spend the rest of her life with him?
don’t get me wrong, but i am in no way crazy over cecilia or nic.. but i think this scandal has gotten wayy over board.
i hope nic would listen to his wife’s side of the story before deciding to do something he may later regret, and definitely consider counceling. afterall, (im not oldfashioned.. BUT..) marriage is supposed to be “till death do you part” right? ..have faith in each other!!
mistakes are in the past, whats important is the future!! TRY to give 2nd chances..
i wish all those who were affected by this scandal my well wishes…
oh please Lucas NOT be Nic’s child so that the saga can continue. hey, this what draw people to read. looking at these losers makes us forget our own life simpler problems. we become winners just lookin at them. 6 mths from now they will be forgetten. and no one d!es from s@x scandal except one Marilyn Monroe. hongkongers are too proud to d!e.
why would you want to stay married if you found out your wife cheated on you not once, but more than three times? its too late to work things out, leave her and move on with your life.
oh please Lucas be Nic’s child!That way Nic can work things out to forgive Cecilia!
Even if it’s proven Nic is the father, I hope custody of baby will go to him after the divorce. Lucas’s growing life will probably be a difficult one as when he’s older, he’ll definately find out what his mum has done (from outsiders).
the thing is, would Nicholas want his baby to suffer the same way he suffered?! i mean nick’s parents broke up when he and his sisters were teens… now pause there, it’s either nick likes the way that his parents broke up, or he dislike it. and i am sure that if he dislikes it, he won’t do the same thing to his child unless he really has to.
So who is the other guy? Jordan Chan? LOL
Taking video when u are about to get married is what u deserve now la
Want to take video when making out be a p@rnstar la.
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For the sake of the baby (babies), they should split up. How is it possible to raise the kids in a family that is in ruins, all that negativity will be forever planted in the kids memory. I think they should just split and try to be civil with each other for the sake of the kids but not stay together.
There is a possibility that Lucas is not Nick’s but just happens that Nick was the only one that wanted to marry the trash – perfect for her at the time.