59 Responses to “Well…its hard to accept the truth…but the truth …”

Rashidat Honey Alli Alabi says:
March 10, 2008 at 5:33 am
well what can i say about this whole situation. i agree with everyone that has stated that it is down to those involved as to how the situation is delt with. i have always felt that if a person is no longer intersted in a relationship then they should end it before they pick up with someone else.
be it a man or a woman that has commited the act of infidelity is not the point the point is how can you claim to love someone and then cause them such hurt.
the act is even more hurtful after marriage as you have stood up in front of friends and family and commited bound yourself to some for the rest of your life.
the person i feel sorry for the most in this is little lucas as he is the one that is going to be traumatized the most. and the fact that his parents are celebrities makes matter even worse since all of their exploits are on record for him to view when he is older.
i pray that the paternity test proves without a shadow of a doubt that nicholas is lucas father.
i wish people would consider the consequences of their actions before they take them as they would save themselves and the people they claim to love a lot of heartache and pain.
with much love and support to all
RHAA
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jong says:
March 7, 2008 at 8:17 pm
very sad to nicholas.. you have a bad wife.. cheating is unforgiveable… leaving such deep pain.. how could u say “love” but u cheat the marriage with your husband?? is very hurt!!!!!
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yenni (indonesia) says:
March 7, 2008 at 8:07 pm
if i would nicholas tse, i will divorce her… because she already blur en cheat the holy marriage..who will make sure she wont do this again in the next time? sad to Lucas life will always remember in his mom scandalll.. from the first time i dont like cecilia tooo… she had a very bad attitude.. bad girl.. not match to nicholas who people always think he is playboy but in the fact he is not like that…
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saint says:
March 1, 2008 at 5:19 pm
It’s OK Cecilia. The aftermath will come to an end (but that’s because everything will come to an end:).
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Chris says:
February 24, 2008 at 7:17 pm
i’ve always think Nicholas Tse and Cecelia Cheung is the eastern of Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolia and even the daughter. However after the naughty photos of Cecelia had released, it’s spoiled everyone heart of these perfect couples. At this point, we have learn something, “Fairy Tales never happen in real life”. Good luck of you both.
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Lolei says:
February 23, 2008 at 2:25 pm
He should stay married to her. Just because a woman plays around doesn’t mean that she doesn’t love her spouse.
Men have so many affairs even if they love their wife and never intend to leave her.
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???? says:
February 23, 2008 at 12:04 pm
i don’t think any body has a say in this situation, but from a standard point of view, all these readers are just supporting the marriage due to the fact that they love both actor and actress in this case. but truth is that infertility is a very unforgivable thing. how many of you could forgive a spouse who has cheated on you numerous times? just because the spouse is good looking does not mean they deserve to be forgiven for such a big matter. movie stars are regular everyday people could not handle such a thing as that. i for one could never forgive someone who has publicly been caught cheating during a relationship. you people speak out nonsense when you’ve never actually put yourself in those the place of those involved. if your truly love someone then why would you cheat on then time and again? how many of you could say that someone who has cheated on you numerous times deserves to be forgiven? who’s a real saint out there that could put up with those things?
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AT says:
February 22, 2008 at 11:18 pm
i Agree if nicholas divorce her wife even is not good to their son.
i don’t like cecilia when first time i saw her in television.
she always has a bad relationship with a lot af guys.
a woman like that can’t be a goood mother to their children later.
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Watana333 says:
February 21, 2008 at 7:18 pm
wish both of u good luck. sad tat tis happened in tis beautiful world
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livelifetothefullest says:
February 21, 2008 at 9:39 am
For what i remembered when nicholas entered showbiz, i told my mom nicholas is very handsome. he’s still so. as for cecelia, i think she’s very sweet and beautiful. as for what i think now, cecelia has youth and she is very nice. because like what i describe, who doesn’t grow up after setbacks. and what had happened is reality. i believed they are meant for each other. just hope everything fine and that people grow up after their mistakes. i hope cecelia, if u read this, i support u and stay happy. and hope everything changes well after this. as for the rumours, how true is it? i think nothing of it. seize the day. stay strong. i hope they will be together happily ever after.
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judgement says:
February 20, 2008 at 3:56 pm
A lot people are missing two key points. Before you decide to go forgiving a beautiful celebrity for a supposedly unimportant event.
1) This is the only time she’s been CAUGHT. We don’t know if there have been other affairs since.
2) We don’t even know if he’s the father anymore.
BOTH those things have to be addressed (esp. no 2) before he can make the decision to go on with his marriage.
Anyone who is asking him to just “forgive and forget” without caring about the two points above is just letting their need for things to workout blind them to the things that need to be settled first.
Is she a cheater? Is he the father. What you want or don’t want to believe doesn’t matter.
All that matters is what’s true and why.
And truth should be the basis of all lifetime commitments.
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aiko says:
February 19, 2008 at 7:22 pm
Nicolas, please forgive Cecilia.I mean right now you can’t forgive her but just take some time…i’m from california, even from here i can feel that love Cecilia have for you.PLEASE forgive Cecilia.Maybe it’s for the sake of your son, Lucas.remember CECILIA LOVES YOU!!!!!!!!!!
4 THE REST OF HER LIFE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Jun R.Z says:
February 19, 2008 at 3:12 pm
Nic, please forgive Celilia. Everyone has a past, plus she really didn’t do anything illegal nor abnormal as an adult (given she was not dating you at the time these pics were taken). The public tends to forget that stars are NORMAL human beings too! They have every right to engage in NORMAL s@xual activities as any of us adults in a relationship. The only party in the wrong here is the person or the persons that released these pics to the public. By doing so, they’ve violated these stars privacy, potentially destroying their careers, even their lives. This is what those people TRULY want. So, please do let them walk away laughing and satisfied by breaking up your beautiful family. Your marriage to celilia is a new page in your lives, it’s a testiment of your love for each other. Stay strong, and show them what you and your family is truly made of by STAYING TOGETHER! When the dust settles, the public will realize the girls didn’t do anything wrong, it’s those who publicized these pics are to be punished! I know it’s very difficult for you to forgive your wife right now, but TIME will heal everything. She LOVES you and the whole world knows that. When the dust settles, the only thing the public will remember, is that you’re the only one Celilia ever loved, and that you are an extremely strong man that endured few few who could, and pulled your family together to survive this horrific scandal. Our hearts are with you Nic, and with your family!
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fans in california says:
February 19, 2008 at 2:24 pm
nicholas..ypour are my super star…so is cecilia too…but i really dont want you to divorce cecilia…its the past..please forgive her…i know right now she will be a great wide and mother…everyone sees that she changed alot for you…the past is the past..i know you need time to accept the past..but hopefully you can really face it…please forgive cecilia..please…
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whatever says:
February 19, 2008 at 10:45 am
I think Nic should do a DNA to his ’son’…
Maybe it was ED son or somebody haha
cuz in the pics ED didnt wear any condom LOL
I wonder if Cecilia record her body with Nic while doing it >.<
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KoroKoro says:
February 19, 2008 at 6:44 am
I thinked it will extremely difficult for a man to swallow such kind of humiliation and especially for a man of his stature. Nicholas will most likely avoid Cecilia at this moment and hopefully as things cool off in time, hope they can get back together. But meantime, it will be impossible for Nicholas to accept any form of apologies from Cecilia. You can hurt a man physically but not his EGO.
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dan says:
February 18, 2008 at 4:16 am
Cecilia was a naughty sl^t even when she was still studied in Melb, AUS. I knew the story that she had slept around with rich people in Melb and then got promoted straight after she came back to Hong Kong. She cannot even sing but then she got this deal with the recording company which all the people knew she slept with the executive.
She’s seem to enjoy the night with Edison. What a shame girl. This scandal will destroy her carrers and her life.
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stupidrOnA says:
February 18, 2008 at 12:40 am
whaaaat??! please god, no. i like cecilia and nicholas as a couple. hold on, you two, you will eventually sort this out. learn to be more patient, understanding, caring and loving. it is all in the PAST so bury it as it is. PLEASE!!!
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CC says:
February 17, 2008 at 9:19 pm
well, nicholas tse, the past can’t be changed but the future can be improved. Nicholas should continue to give moral support, emotional support and whatever supports that a husband should provide for his wife. Marriage is team work and Cecilia had forgiven nicholas tse for whatever he had done in the past. The people who exposed these pictures should be sentenced to life-time imprisonment. their greed for money and their selfishness had destroyed the future of these people in the pictures. Whatever actions and activites taken placed are their own private and personal matter. they have their rights. so, Nicholas tse, please forgive cecilia and give her your support. From your admirer.
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kr4eva says:
February 17, 2008 at 9:19 pm
well u know,i agree that marriage is a commitment. i understand why nicholas would want to divorce because a marriage is consist of trust, u have to build up ur trust in order for a the other person to marry you. ur righ, the photos are the past, but the thing is she cheated on him. of course think about lucas, but if trust is gone, how can he live with her knoing that she cheated on him and how can he trust her now. i think he deserve someone that he can trust to live with him forever like how he wanted to with cecilia. even if he tries to stay with her for the sake of lucas, is there going to be happiness in being with someone that u cant trust?and u kno the wound would not heal, the scars would remain.
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Linda says:
February 17, 2008 at 7:03 pm
I think they should part. In a relationship if there is a doubt in trust, hanging on just making both party suffer. As for Lucas, yes, it is sad to grow up without a proper family. But for a family being together without the trust isn’t being very healthy either.
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Rowan Tan says:
February 17, 2008 at 11:17 am
Nicholas be a man what you said and don’t be a coward. Did Cecilia ever do this after the marriged since Septerber 2006? Wife is for life especially who born you a child, think twice what you do,Cecilia is a good wife.
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Carol says:
February 17, 2008 at 1:32 am
Well…its hard to accept the truth…but the truth is the past…life goes on…and
Cilcialia needs Nic. support at this time…and if he doesn’t than he’s not a good husband at all, all he cares about is how ppl talked behind his back….SCARY CAT…not a real MAN..
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miracle says:
February 17, 2008 at 12:48 am
true enough that no man is able to handle this…
but i do not think Nicholas is the one who finds this the hardest to deal with, but Cecilia.
at the time when she needs him the most, he leaves her for his pride’s and name’s sake.
this doesn’t seem to proof that he loves her as much as she does to him.
everybody’s pass WILL be exposed sooner or later… it’s just the matter of whether another can accept it or not. in other words, allow that person to have a new start.
well, conclusion; being a star isn’t very nice after all. Lol
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afaa says:
February 16, 2008 at 11:34 pm
Uh, Nicholas was not mad because of the pictures, its the fact that Cecilia CHEATED on him with Edison Chen.
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Eve says:
February 16, 2008 at 9:26 pm
This is their personal affair. Leave them alone. Let Nic and Cecilia settle themselves. Why bother about their personal affair? We should appreciate and admire their acting skills. After all, they kept us entertained.
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Mar ne says:
February 16, 2008 at 9:24 pm
I see this is a matter of trust & honesty being broken between them. He must feel betrayed. She should have told him about those pictures before they married. Then he would have been more prepared incase such a thing as this happened.
This way it came as an overwhelming shock to his heart. His family has been devastated.
It would be painful to even look at her the same anymore. Anyone who has been betrayed by their loved one would understand my points.
What’s to say she hasn’t continued cheating behind his back? That may also be a thought going thru his mind now. Alot of people say stay married because you have a baby together. That fact does not matter. They could patch up for a short while & something would trigger more arguments & this unfortunate situation would be brought to the forfront. All couples argue but something like this would put more strain & stress in anyones relationship. Eventually the child in question would feel that there is tention between his parents. That is NO enviroment to raise a child. The child would still be loved by both parents. In that there is no question. This entire situation is very sad for everyone involved.
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NIkki says:
February 16, 2008 at 5:05 pm
Cecilia had an on and off relationship with nicholas. and never had a big time frame of being single. she was always dating someone, and if that didn’t work out, she will run back to Nicholas. Therefore, Nicholas is ending his marriage because during the picture taking, she had a relationship with nic, but also at the same time is having s@xual affairs with Edison. In my opinion, Nicholas is making the right decision.
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Rose says:
February 16, 2008 at 9:48 am
Well, I don’t know how to say for them…. but why people go through any private life ? Everyone have they own private life, right ? There are so pity enought….. don’t attack them….
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